For Women Only: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men

For Women Only: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men

by Shaunti Feldhahn

Discover the Truth He Wants You to KnowThe man in your life carries important feelings so deep inside he barely knows theyre there, much how to talk about them.

Yet your man genuinely wants you to get himto understand his inner life, to know his fears and needs, to hear what he wishes he could tell you.In her landmark bestseller, For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every womansingle or marriedneeds to know.

Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including: Why your respect means more to him than your love.

What he most wishes he could say to you.Now, in this expanded and updated edition, youll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows whats really going on when he seems to check out.

  • Language: English
  • Category: Nonfiction
  • Rating: 4.06
  • Pages: 224
  • Publish Date: March 19th 2013 by Multnomah
  • Isbn10: 1601424442
  • Isbn13: 9781601424440

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I need her to be my number one source of encouragement to become the man God created me to be." Very true! Thank God for supportive and caring need them!

This book needs to do a better job of advertising its real nature online. It spent 30 pages on how men need respect and what women are supposed to do to give it to them. I feel it has much less of a bias than this book. It works better to hear both sides rather than making it all about what the man wants.

It's a little strange that Dr. Harley, a marriage counselor, is a better writer than Ms. Feldhahn. But then it should be obvious that a marriage counselor would write a better book on relationships than the author of The Veritas Conflict (which is apparently about the evils of humanism and a college education). Feldhahn does, however, like to blame that sex drive on the evils of American society, which is somewhat counterproductive considering that humans create society, not the other way around.

Well-intentioned, but a little obvious, I would re-title this work "Traditional Gender Roles for Dummies." Many of the "surprising" revelations might be of real use to women who have little experience talking on a deeply relational level to men, and who want to affirm their men in traditional ways.

It takes things we've all heard before (like men need respect, sex, etc.) and really gets at the heart of what that means...more so than any other book I've read on the subject so far.

I think it is a good book for couples that have been married for a while to read and discuss.

I believe many of the things she writes can apply to women, too, but I can't disregard its special relevance, because it sparked a really reflective conversation between "my man" and me.

Wives are advised to change their points of view and actions to accommodate their husbands.

Listening to the survey questions, I felt that they were very leading and then Feldhahn presented the percentages to support the message she wanted to relay.

It's about the things that men wish we new about them, and how they really feel about us (as women), but more specifically their wives. Now as most of you out there may know, I am not a wife, yet (I still hold out hope), however, when I read books like this it's always with that expectation in mind, and more specifically, because I am an observer of people, I usually draw on past experiences and behavior that I have witnessed in order to understand why I do the things that I do, and feel the way that I feel about certain things. What was new to me, and never dispensed in my direction, was HOW important some of these things are to men and how some of those aspects have affected my own life and the company I have kept with men. Reading it I could see how a great many things that my Dad did for me, like teaching me to play golf or how to understand football, and to enjoy fishing and camping, could be looked at as attempts to cultivate a sense of what men like to take part in so that I can share in those things with my future husband, and not just demand the typical "girly" type dates (although those will be nice too).

Shaunti and her husband Jeff live in Atlanta with their teenage daughter and son, and two cats who think they are dogs.